One reason I created this blog was so that I could write a little something every other day about whatever was currently going on in my life. I love The Hopkins Family Fore blog, but it's becoming difficult to recall every funny story that happens and actually have the time to write about it. I'll still continue to write for both, but this blog should allow me to post more frequently.
I thought I would kick off my first real post by revealing one of the biggest secrets about motherhood that most people don't understand (unless you're a mother of course). Are you ready to be blown away...here it is: I don't always like being a mom; In fact, I dislike it more than one would think. You may be saying to yourself "But why Kris, you are so good at it" (sarcastic laugh to myself)...I know I’m good at it, I’m not going to lie ::rolling my eyes:: but it is hard work. Maternal instincts come naturally, but the ability to share your life completely with someone else takes a
I love my children very much, which is maybe why it's so hard for me to admit that I feel like I’m struggling to enjoy this parental privilege. And I do believe being a parent is a privilege...any schmuck out there can be a "uterus donor", but it takes a lot love and an unselfish heart to be a mother...loving your babies comes easily...but liking them all the time takes work.
I love your new blog, Kris! I know exactly how you feel...sometimes I look at my girls who are always perfectly dressed and accessorized, while I am lucky to have had a shower and I think, "Damn, I used to be HOT, and now I'm just a HOT MESS!" My mantra since the twins were born has become, "Me first," as in I make my own meals before the kids', I drink my coffee first, I brush my teeth first and I take a shower....etc. Otherwise I run around like a chicken with my head cut off attending to everyone's needs and I never take care of me! I feel guilty sometimes, but I tell myself it's good for them to learn a little patience. :)
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